My 18 year old daughter is dating a 26 year old man - If you are a middle-aged woman looking to have a good time dating man half your age, this article is for.
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- Thoughts on a 26 year old human male dating an 18 year old human female?
- Is it OK for a 26 year old to date an 18 year old?
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- 26 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl? Would that be wrong? - The Student Room
Thoughts on a 26 year old human male dating an 18 year old human female?
Why are you asking a population of virgins for advice? Girls only take away your interweb time. Oct 7, 3. Oct 7, 4. Simon, very very very few 18 year old girls are "pure". Oct 7, 5. Oct 7, 6. Yeh I'm definitely going for it, I'm just curious if people will think I'm a predator. Oct 7, 7.
Is it OK for a 26 year old to date an 18 year old?
Oct 7, 8. Curious to what she looks like. Oct 7, 9. Oct 7, Did you meet her behind Staples? Oct 8, What's the obsession with sleeping with different looking girls? Why not just one? Haven't you ever questioned that, or do you just act on the impulse like the billions of other people in the world. Just shut down on her and moved onto the next chapter.
You really cannot understand why I would do that, and a great number of people on this board can't. It's because it's the foundation stone. Without it, everything come crumbling down. The intellect suffers, your emotional capacity shrinks. So it is critically important to be stable and not dilute yourself with every whore you come across. I'm really not trying to make you feel bad about yourself, either.
If you want to know how to rise up and become glorious, you have to know this. Well it's just so mind boggling. People look at sex purely for the sensation, and the sensations are there. Sure, everyone knows that. What people do not know is that it is the most powerful connection between two human beings and a lot can be shared through that. The most powerful energy just transverses, it has the power to create. A child or otherwise. This is the big secret Technically this is frowned upon. Aug 1, Messages: Nov 23, Messages: God you sounds like queer simon.
Kamisori0 , Oct 8, You'll look like a predator if she follows you around with a vacant, happy look in her eye, or generally seems really stupid and childish. You'll get frowned upon much more for having sex with a girl that has the personality of a child than someone who looks like a child.
I've had a friend who slept with a girl that seriously looked pre-pubescent to me actually age 18 and no one questioned it for a second because she was really mature and wilful. You'll be fine if "she's such a kid" never comes across your mind while spending time with her. Then you're in danger that other people will see it.
But you really make me laugh. You say how she's a girl with a nice personality you like then talk about manipulating her into having sex with you - wtf is wrong with you XD. Dec 9, Messages: She was also mature for her age, and if it weren't for his infidelity, she would still be married to him. So it depends on the people involved.
If she's a mature person and acts older than a naive teenager, and you are able to treat her like an equal and not like someone who has to be dominated because of the age difference, then it might work. What you suggest is absolutely fine, OP. There's a good chance her parents will be thrilled about this as opposed to the unknown factor in guys they realize are looming. In any event you will know their reaction soon enough. Good luck on the dinner and going forward.
Not a good idea. Someone who is 18 years old has pretty much no dating experience, on the other hand you just got out of a 5 year relationship.. So magically what's going to happen Furthermore you just said you're not looking for a fling, but you're not looking for a relationship I would hope with a 8 year advantage you'd have a better sense than this, not to mention IF things don't work out which I imagine them not you're going to have to deal with this uncomfortable situation I never meant to hurt you So be careful with your decisions here Id suggest someone your age, and with some relationship experience You should at least take 6 mons to yourself, If not 9 mons or so, and If you're going to hook up at least hookup with some "woo yeah, partaaay!
She's just not the kind of girl you need right now, you're only going to hurt her. So ask yourself how much you really care about her, before you pull the "emotionally unavailable" card at some point. Hi Ninja, you make very good points. This new person knows my story well already. In fact she had met my ex before. It's not a date. If you don't go for it, you might look back and wish you had. I agree with ninja. Shes just a kid. I dont even look at women under 21 myself, and Im I just feel they arent on my level when they are too young and I could really run circles around really young girls.
26 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl? Would that be wrong? - The Student Room
Id feel weird and as if Im using my life experience to be steps ahead of a naive youth. I remember being 18 and thinking I was super mature since I moved out at that age. Only to move back in at I remember how immature I was and how I didnt really find a true sense of myself until I was near my mid 20s. Id say let this girl date dudes her age because you have lots of responsibilities here.
You say you dont want a fling, but if youre not looking for a gf then you will only turn this girl into a fling. Thus youll be the typical dude breaking her heart at Not older dude who know better. I dont think this is wrong at all. Age is only a number - and if your parents have been friends with her parents for quite sometime, then they will realise how nice you are and make a good match for their daughter.
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