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- A Freshman Girl's Guide to College Dating | Her Campus
Girls aren't supposed to do disgusting things. We are perfect, gross-free goddesses but as soon as you make a dude think otherwise, you're done. It's still kind of embarrassing if you lose function of your body in your own home: For the rest of your college years, you will be an object of ridicule for him and his friends. Guys will be scared of you. Not to mention you have to awkwardly clean up after yourself. In other words, you have to take the laundry you soiled home to wash. Meaning, you're going to have to see him again. This interaction will probably be sober and awkward, to say the least.
So next time, just play it safe and sleep with him at your place. Don't Linger in the morning. This advice is for all you male and female lingerers out there.
You know who you are, and you need to cut it out. Staying for an unwelcome amount of time after waking up in the morning after a drunk college hookup. Time can range anywhere from fifteen minutes to over an hour. No ladies, Drew from Delta Chi doesn't want to take you to bagels and talk about your intense CrossFit workouts. If he says he's getting up to take a shower, that is your cue to leave. And no gentlemen, she doesn't want you to try and make forced small talk then attempt to have another go at morning sex. Just get out of there, as fast and smoothly as possible.
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Everyone who has had a college hookup knows that "Come over for a movie night" is a code for "Come over so we can hook up. That cute, popular sophomore Mark actually didn't want to spend quality time watching Along Came Polly for two fucking hours just to have you kiss him goodbye at the end.
He's seen the movie 14 times. He probably also never texted you to hang out after that, huh? So, if you are down to sleep with this guy sober, by all means go over to his house when he asks if you want to have a movie night. If you have no intention of seeing frat boy Chad's naked bod without your booze goggles on, refrain until the weekend. Be a Homie Hopper. For those of you unaware of what a Homie Hopper is, who are you?
I define a homie hopper as follows: A guy or girl who sleeps with multiple people in a particular friend group. Being a homie hopper is an uphill battle that never ends well. If you're a female homie hopper, all the guys you're sleeping with think you're dirty and easy. Even if you're truly not dirty because let's be honest you probably are easy , to them you are. You're the bottom of the watered down jungle juice: If you're a male homie hopper, the consequences aren't pretty either.
Once again, how would you approach? What would you say to her? Or should I grab her hand, spontaneously, and be like "Hey, I like this song. I would appreciate any comments. Also, if you say it with profound confidence, there is a higher chance that your move will work.
Lastly, if you view every girl as "Bitches. Every player must critique their own actions, rather than the first reaction of the girl. Rejection happens, but it doesn't mean she's a bitch. I completely agree with you, as most probably do. Your main issue isn't how you look, its how you feel and behave. You need mad inner-game help, read some ekhart tolle or some other self-help book.
I would honestly recommend for you to read a lot of books to help you gain confidence.
You can't learn and work on yourself if you only game once a month when your friend invites you to a party. I think not, in fact, they didn't. Lets be honest, did a caveman have the glory of owning a mirror, and as much as water can reflet my appearance, I am quite confident I can't do my habitual morning groom infront of a lake.
As for AA dont think of the girls as hb10 or w. I don't view every girl as "bitches", I was just referring to their attitudes. I'm not a real spontaneous guy and don't think of words to say quick enough to entertain a girl IF a conversation goes stale. If you may, can you make a video or direct me to one of yours where you record an entire conversation with the female until you get her number.
Thanks guys for the criticism. Javier, thanks for the responses.
The Ultimate Guide to Hooking Up With Endless Girls in College
Keep it up, it seems you're really putting yourself out there. I am just trying to learn and "fit in the pieces to the puzzle" if you will, before I actually talk to a girl that I am interested in. I just don't want to mess up. Thanks guys for the help, and expect me TitoRauda in that Webinar tomorrow night. The concrete is actually clean today. Wouldn't other ppl be outside waiting? This was really helpful--thanks! I like that you're talking about the college setting.
But I think it'd be helpful to know more about how you manage group situations.
For instance, say there is a "group" that hangs out a lot as friends. But you happen to like one in particular. But this person is almost literally stuck to her best friend, whom you're also friends with. Could you provide guidance as to how you "separate" your target out? Also, how do you do this without "alerting" others in the friend group and potentially creating awkward situations as a result? This article is awesome! As stupid a s it probably sounds to you guys, those small details and step by step proceedings are what I get caught up on and falter over.
Stuff like, is it okay to go in bathroom? How clean should it be? What should I do right away when the door closes? Someone commented this from your god mode article. I have a very similar issue right now. I work hours a week right now. I literally have ONE friend who is single and he has two jobs.
I have been successful in severely cutting back on the porn time which is a great start for me. I want to get out there and get going but by myself just feels depressing. Its such a weird issue I didnt think about. Drop them NOW and find better friends.
A Freshman Girl's Guide to College Dating | Her Campus
I have close friends that share my other interests videogames, music, etc. Most of them are confortable not having sex at all, which is not OK for me. When I talk to other guys in college classes, for example I feel that they don't really want to hang out with me, so I'm not confortable becoming closer to them. I don't find simple to find better friends as you imply above, It's not like I would jump in front of a lot of guys and say "Hey, wanna be my friend?
I'm pretty much in the same situation. Showing up alone to parties, concerts, clubs is really not that fun. Even if all you're going for is to hit on some girls, the fact that you have no backup to even have a chat with later if you get rejected just really sucks. I'm the type of person who likes to go out and do things but I have to have at least one person with me or for some reason I just feel alone and awkward as fuck. And I agree with B here, can't exactly walk up to some people and just ask if they wanna be friends.
Odds are they have their own friends. What are our options here? Find the most lonely looking and pathetic people and friend them? I kind of figured out, after some time, that your tips are not to be used like a recipe, but more or less worked into your own picking-up-style. Since then everything has been going smooth, but I always get stopped at making out with girls and only on very few occasions it gets beyond that. Now my question is, what would you guys do or what are you doing , to get to the next stage? It's not that I view women as objects, but most of the time, me and them only connect on a physical level besides the small-talk and I feel they are having a great time with me.
Still, I know they like to have sex as much as us men do. So why not get a little fun out of it either way and have both be happy afterwards. Thanks again and greetings from Oktoberfest-ruled Munich Btw. Oktoberfest is a great place to pick up girls it's like a bazar with beer and boobs! Would be awesome to have you guys in town! I clean and exfoliate my face regularly I dont have acne, never had Good point and thank you. We're writing an article about this and hygiene. What up players, 2 questions yo. What are some good relaxation techniques to better handle bitch butterflies?
What do i do if a girl hits on me? Happened to me the other day at a concert and i just froze and felt awkward as fuck since i usually make the first move. If you don't want to do that, get buzzed with a small dosage of alcohol! I actually find myself more sociable at a party without friends near me than with, because in that situation you're forced to meet other people if you don't want to be an awkward loner. That and all my friends are sociopaths.
Don Draper is a cool. I don't entirely understand why you're only supposed to stay in the bathroom 5 minutes if your dick is involved That's not enough time in my opinion. Could you elaborate on this? What we mean is: When cleaning the bathroom - make sure you're only in there for no more than 5 minutes. We say this because you don't want your girl to wander off thinking you're taking a poo. The thing about going to parties is killing me, cause I have no clue where they are. I've asked around and people just talk about clubs more than actual parties.
From my knowledge I don't know anyone that goes clubbing Any alternatives to the party scene or more on day game for college? I'd rather keep that anonymous so that the information is more general and that it can apply to more people. So does anyone know what to do about day game at college? Make your own fucking party. Invite the people to you'r house or whatever. In that way YOU are the cool guy, and people will start to do just as you, and you will be invited. I think the key to successful picking up girl s at college party is to be different and confident.
You have to stand out from all the guys in the party. You have to be confident in approaching girls and not be afraid to communicate and open up conversations.
Try not to talk too much about school related topics because the reason why people go to these college parties is to relax and not getting into academic zone. When I say you have to be different, you have to either be wearing something that stands out and shines, or clothes that no one else is wearing.
When I say you have to be confident, after a few conversations, you should just go ask her number and tell her your intention that you want to meet her again.