Apparently, after a recent divorce, she began dating again, only to When someone stops calling or texting, whether after one date, or a month.
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Talking to her sort of became a habit for me already and I really enjoyed her company so I do hope you're right when you said she'd come around soon or whenever she's ready. Thanks for the advice.
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The only way I'd get a response at this point is if I go to their house but I think that'd be a bad idea. I might look like some crazy fool begging her to talk to me. Perhaps I'll just text her in a couple of days and try that line but for now waiting, like Lie suggested, seems like the best thing to do right now. She shouldve atleast told you that it wont be a good idea to keep in touch anymore because she got a boyfriend. Considering you're THIS hung up on her, it's not a big deal going to her place, is it? Seeing her is better than you thinking about it in your room.
Plus, you might surprise yourself. Maybe she wants to see you too, but can't due to some I suppose you can always use a mutual friend's phone to call her, and see whether she hangs up on you Odds on she got a bf, or decided to spend more time with one of the other guys she's into. This happened to me last Summer.
Except the girl told a lot of lies about not hanging out. That varied from car troubles to being beat up in her apartment. Then most recently this girl gave me the give me a little time before we hangout speech, because I'm school is my first priority. Yet she throws a party Memorial Day weekend. But of course she blows me off I don't hear from her again. She probably has no interest in you anymore and probably does not want to hurt or offend you?
I'm not sure but it would be better if this girl was more straight forward other than just simply ignoring you -. It seems that she lost interest and does not know how to handle that gracefully. She was possibly less interested in you than you were in her in the first place. Like someone else said though, there's a million different explanations for this.
If you really want to know, ask her straight up and say you just want some closure with the truth. Otherwise, try not to get too hung up and move on. Detach yourself from her. Think of it this way: She never struck me as the type who'd stop talking to someone just because she lost interest in the person.
But then again, I just knew her for a couple of months so perhaps she just hid that well. Anyway, I've come to a decision to just go to her condo on Friday and attempt to get in contact with her if she still hasn't contacted me within the week.
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I'm still not sure how that would help my case to get things back to the way it was but like most of you said, it's the only way to get to know the truth after all. I haven't given much thought about what I should say or how I should act when I see her hopefully shes there , so any of you guys could help me there?
I'm not really good at this stuff. Like, "hey, just came over to see what's doin I did the exact same to another guy. I broke up with my boyfriend of two years, had a really hard time forgetting about him, so I tried to focus on this other guy for a few weeks. Then i realized that i was just trying deny the breakup and push it away.
I told the other guy I wasn't ready for anything and that I'm just really confused. It just felt wrong to force myself with another guy you know? Maybe your girl thought somehting similar? I could be completely wrong though: Or perhaps someone old because I just realized just now that this month is supposed to be the anniversary month of her and her ex had they not broken up.. I'm not exactly sure what date it was but I do know that its this month. Perhaps they did make up and she decided to stop talking to me out of respect to him.
But then again, she seems a decent person and decent people just don't do these kinds of things. On the other hand, Ive only known her for a couple of months. No chance because I only know only one of her friends and she's out of the country. If this was the case, I'd be able to accept it easier since I know the reason. But then, I never felt she was forcing it because from my perspective, she was trying to keep our relationship as purely casual and platonic as possible. I applaud you though, for being fair to the guy. I wish more women did that rather than pulling this kind of crap.
Anyway, I'd just like to say that the only thing thats keeping my head above the water right now is how most of my female friends I asked about this guys didn't have a clue and I'm never really open to talk about this stuff to my guy friends gave me positive feedback saying that she might like me and that she just got tired of dropping hints according to them, the time I spent at their condo was my chance to be intimate with her - which I wasted because I spent too much of that time trying to do the opposite because of the fear of rejection and is saving herself the trouble of getting friendzoned.
What do you guys think of this possibility?
Personally, this would be the best case scenario for me since maybe I could save what we had by surprising her and tell her mushy stuff. Also, I feel stupid for not thinking of this earlier but should I use facebook to get in touch with her? Im not sure if she's active in facebook because Im not her friend in the network. I never got the chance to add her because I was never active myself.
Im not into the whole social networking thing. Should I or shouldnt I?
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Im sorry for being so clueless about these kinds of things and asking shallow questions like the facebook thing. Truthfully, I never really had my way with women. This is actually the first time I'm taking a big for me atleast risk and go to her condo so I'm pretty nervous.
I'm tired of falling flat on my face because I didnt do anything. Wish me luck guys.
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I'll need every bit of it because if I fail again, I can't imagine how awful I'd feel afterwards since this whole taking-a-leap is new for me. Thanks for the support and replies.
Long post is long. He left you wondering — curious, asking for more. People love a chase. Make yourself a prize in their eyes and make them work for it. She thought you were cool, worth getting to know, got her feet wet. Ones that just flow seamlessly, and organically without hesitation.
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