Dating a black man

Because I like you and if you want in to the society of men who've dated black women, I want to help you. Full disclosure, I think interracial.
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He showed up for Black women. So often, we assume that if a person is not dating within their race, then they must not care about their counterparts within it.

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Tyler setting the record straight on why he dates who he dates undercuts that notion because it focuses on the personal connection rather than a lack of Blackness. More than that, Tyler showed that basing your romantic choices on played out stereotypes that could just as easily be applied against you is a flimsy reason to exclusively date out. And that logic reveals a lot about the shortcomings of someone who subscribes to these ideas.


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But I just find black people to be better looking. The men are just hotter. She must have read my mind when she made the disclaimer about finding white men attractive, too. I hate any kind of exclusive or discriminatory thinking when it comes to race and sex, even when it works in my favor. I have no problem with racial preferences. But in reality as well as on TV and in movies, the highest-profile interracial couples have been white women with black men. I have a theory about white women and black men, and it goes a little something like this. However, once their curiosity is satisfied, their long-term behavior is probably less likely to be racially motivated.

And I realize there are always exceptions.

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One can probably say the same thing about gay black men who date white men. Again, this is not a blanket theory. I once presented this idea to a friend a white guy who dates black men exclusively , and he had an intriguing response. He said it probably has to do with the male emphasis on the physical.

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Men are driven primarily by physical attraction when choosing a partner, while with women, other factors can play just as vital a role. I knew the woman I was talking to probably never would have been having this conversation with a white person. Clearly I was first and foremost a black man to her… a gay black man.

RACE: “Ashlyn & Ra’Montae: love in black and white” (United States)

But this was not a pick-up, so I let her continue. She started to tell me about the guy she lost her virginity to 20 years earlier.

1. You aren't racist if you date him.

He was black, and they remained great friends. Now here is where our interaction started to venture off the rails.


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She pulled out her phone and began clicking through photos.