What's up (name), I'm Harold. So, I'm reading your profile and you seem like a really cool and down to earth kind of girl. That being said I'm.
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Join Date Dec Gender: Age 53 Posts Originally Posted by DeadEyeDick.
Can you give examples of what they respond with, how you escalate, and what these contacts have led to? Also, I'm not sure I agree with your "sit back and wait" approach. Men are hard-wired to pursue first, and there's nothing wrong with doing. Somehow, waiting around for women to proactively contact a guy first seems counter-intuitive. One of the benefits of online dating is that it saves time because you can make contact with a lot of women in a short period of time Say something interesting or humorous about it.
Then end with an invitation to get coffee some time. Don't make it any longer than a few shorts sentences. Remember, most attractive women get dozens of messages every day, and she doesn't want to read through a novel from you. I always ask women out on the first message and it works really well for me. It shows you're confident and want to meet them. It will also scare off any girls who would be put off by meeting someone in person, which is a good thing; you don't want to waste your time on them.
Skip the "Hi" or "How are you" nonsense and never comment on anything physically. Find something in her profile and comment on it. Ask open ended non-personal questions. Give some info about yourself for a question you ask. For example, if she like to cook you could write "I see you enjoy cooking. Are you creative in the kitchen or do you need a recipe like me?
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The key is show her you read her profile. Add some humor and confidence and you'll be fine. With experience comes success. Too many men write the same stuff.
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Then as you close it out assume she's going to respond. It's a marketing trick and does work. You can do MUCH better once you start tweaking your emails. What has worked well for me: You have a great smile! If you can't think of anything, then don't message her. Generally breaks the ice. Follow up her thanks with a question about her or something of the like. If she isn't giving you anything you with with, not worth it. You have a great smile" or something to that effect.
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It doesn't give a lot to respond to. The people who got responses were the ones who said something about my profile. What's your favourite dish to make? What's your favourite book? That is nice in theory, but in practice the response rate from women even on well crafted messages that reference something specific in their profile is pretty low. It just takes too much time to read and craft a message to 50 women, only to have 5 respond, and maybe one or two of those lead to a date.
The only real strategy for men if you don't want to spend hours online is to have a good stock message, send it to everyone with a picture you like, and only read the profiles of those that respond. That way you can get an initial read of attraction before investing the time in reading her profile and crafting a custom message.
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